Monthly Archives: September 2014

how do i want to feel in a relationship

…and how can i treat myself this way…..
  • respected…stop taking shit from others and just being their shoulder to cry on or ego boost, respect my own boundaries, take no bullshit policy
  • desired…pay attention to people who need you and why
  • admired…what do i find admirable? commitment and passion for something, outgoing people who aren’t shy
  • sensual…dress feminine and own my appeal, confidence, read erotica
  • sexy…as above plus flirtatious, read erotica
  • happy…staying positive, practicing yoga and doing things i love all just for me, take no bullshit policy
  • understood…be clear and firm
  • heard…clear and firm
  • loved…give it always
  • safe…listen to your intuition, avoid dubious situations and people
  • stimulated…hobbies, read, adventure, curiosity
  • excited…as above
  • embraced/pampered…love yourself, pamper yourself, gym, hair, beauty, health
  •  uplifted…dance, laugh
  • strong/confident…believe in yourself, be sincere and humble
  • supported…know who your support network is
  • cherished…be healthy
  • inspired…do the things that fulfil you, that you are passionate about


“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep…wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you….The one who turns to his friends and says, ‘that’s her.’”

~ Chuck Palahniuk

my love


i have been in personal therapy, taking care to love myself and know in abundance who i really am. i have been meeting, dating, and serenading me. becoming stronger and more into myself and i know that somewhere out there you are doing that to in preparation to be entwined as two individuals together as one soul in love and passion. i know you are getting nearer. i am busy with myself but looking forward to the day we meet. i already know you but know also that you are full of beautiful surprises. our time is coming…..i feel your presence.