draw a picture of your world in you mind.
now add the top most currently critical people to your life in the picture.
reflect on why they are so critical to your life. what lessons are they teaching you?
below them add the next level of critical people and so on until you have a hierarchy of all the people who have walked with you on your journey as a spiritual being having a human experience, including the nasty ones, and the ones that are no longer around.
suddenly everything has a purpose and suddenly your life has so much meaning.
reflect on the fact that you manifested all of those life lessons in the form of every human being that has had an impact on you.
everything happens for a reason.
we are more powerful than we can even imagine. we can manifest the things we want and need in our lives, we just have to be aware of it and always be grateful.